Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Prettier than the Flowers





These pictures came out much better than I expected. All of this came after...
a.) Jason telling the girls to let him go first so that he could make sure they didn't step in any ant beds which of course made Ashlyn paranoid about stepping in an ant pile
b.) Me trying to position the girls and Ashlyn standing up and the top of her head slamming into my chin and giving me a bloody lip ("shoot" was the only thing that escaped from my lips but to be honest, it wasn't the first word that came to mind...it hurt like crazy)
c.) Having to somewhat have everyone not only together (a feat in itself now that Reese is mobile) but also having everyone looking in the same direction...almost impossible.

Monday, April 20, 2009

Easter pics

Easter eggs by artists Laney and Ashlyn
Loaded up with the goods
Posing for the camera
Reesie enjoying the hunt
All things fancy for every occassion

"Hey Drew, do you see any Easter bunny?"
The four cousins before being in their Easter best...
...and all dapper in their Easter outfits!
The famous sister pose...getting harder with Reesie being mobile.
The fam
"This is what is written: The Christ will suffer and rise from the dead on the third day, and repentance and forgiveness of sins will be preached in his name to all nations." Luke 24:46-47
He is risen! He is risen, indeed! And I am forever changed. How about you?

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Take me away...

I am well aware of the fact that I am about to date myself here. I imagine most of you youngsters out there won't have a clue what commercial I am about to talk about. I remember seeing it when I was in elementary school and honestly, found it quite annoying. Any guesses from my title which commercial I am referring to? That's right. The old Calgon commercials. Remember the weird ones with the mom sitting in the bubble bath boldly asking "Calgon, take me away?"

For some reason this odd commercial has come to my mind the past few weeks. One thing for sure...the commercial was written by a woman, not a man. Secondly, without knowing this woman, I am going to say that she is the mom of more than one child. I'll venture even further...I'm thinking that maybe she has an almost-four-year-old who decided in the last week that she would rather not do anything that her mom asked of her. When consequences began to be talked about I can only imagine this child putting on her "ugly" face (which unfortunately for the mom trying to discipline is still quite cute). After yeilding the cute, yet "ugly" face the child then stomps out of the room. This, of course, retracts much of the cuteness still lingering and makes follow-through discipline a little easier on the Calgon-take-me-away Mom.

But let's go on. She probably also had a 17 month old...cute as can be!...that felt the need to be around her mom 98% of the time and will cry if someone else tries to take her if sweet mom is still close by. And while this precious child will melt any heart...she can also have her own dramatic little fake "melt-down" if she feels the need arise. Thankfully, for the Calgon-take-me-away mom these are extremely short-lived.

And my imagination doesn't stop there. I'm guessing there was one more bright, adorable child in the house. This one probably usually gets wound up just before bed-time and because she is like her amazing mother...feels the need to get the last word in, even if not necessary at all.

On top of all this, in order to complete the perfect family, the Calgon-take-me-away mom has a dog...a dog that she used to adore much more when there weren't three children in the house. This pooch probably began acting as if it were going to have a nervous break-down...walking around the house whining, following within inches anywhere anyone went, sitting in the middle of a room barking at nothing at 11:30 at night. This smart woman probably called her vet and put the dog on puppy prozac for a pretty penny.

Yet, I imagine that this Calgon-take-me-away mom, whom I have never personally met, had these thoughts as she soaked in her bubble bath (thankful that the bubbles covered up her stomach which housed these three precious children and now is it's own secret pouch that could hide small objects)..."I wouldn't change anything. Okay, maybe a free maid and cook...but still, even with my husband's dirty clothes on the side of the bed and dishes in the sink...I know all of this represents the fact that I am blessed. Very blessed, indeed."

Well, not sure why the commercial came to my mind :)....

(Easter pics coming soon!)

Saturday, April 4, 2009

You're my Sunshine on a Cloudy Day

I have been pretty "down" and discouraged this week. I'll save everyone the details, but did want to share what God uses to bring sunshine into my cloudy days....enjoy! Know that my sweet husband does too but he doesn't get camera time like my girls.

Could these 3 be any cuter?
That's right...pigtails!

How can you not smile at this precious face?

Cute as a cupcake!

"Cheeeese", scooter-style!

I can't lie...the girl loves rocks, and I'm not teasing!

No wonder everyone is attracted to our Laney-bear!

"Mommy, you're so funny!"

Throwing the ball with Daddy...and lookin' mighty cute doing so!
First t-ball game today. Only girl on the team...she rocked it!

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Pictures from North Carolina

Well, my luggage arrived with my camera. Here are the promised pictures of Reese and my trip to North Carolina. Here are 6 of the 8 Ashford grandkids and their spouses and kiddos. Andy and Joy, y'all were deeply missed.

Reesie having some fun with her Gampa! Not sure why she was sticking out her tongue...

My mom's oldest brother, my Uncle Tom, with my Aunt Bea, John and Jocelyn.

My mom's middle brother, Uncle Bruce, and my Aunt Bobbi. These precious people took great care of my Grandfather. Grandfather moved in with them for over a year. Seriously, they have large crowns to lay down at Jesus' feet one day!


Reesie playing with my cousin Peter's little girl, Laurel. She is a cutie! They seemed to enjoy each other's company and Reese can't get enough of babies!

I am blessed, blessed!

Monday, March 23, 2009

My Grandfather, John T. Ashford, Jr.


Last Tuesday, March 17th, my sweet 91 year-old grandfather passed from this home to his eternal Home. I imagine it was a sweet reunion filled with many smiles, hugs and laughter between him, my grandmother, and my mom. Grandfather was a WWII pilot. His study was filled with model airplanes hanging from the ceiling and I used to love going in there, grabbing a true glass bottle of coke, and looking at all the pictures of him and his bride, he in his airforce uniform, etc.
He loved steaks and cooked them for the family as often as he could. He was, without a doubt, the slowest eater I have ever met. I remember him laughing so hard watching Johnny Carson that tears would run down his face. When you asked him to recount what was so funny he couldn't ever get the story out because he couldn't stop laughing.
He knew and loved the Lord, and taught Sunday School at his church. I saw him trust the Lord in good times and in the most difficult of times. He loved his family tremendously, although having all 8 of us grandkids in the house at one time made him a nervous wreck. He loved my grandmother well and they enjoyed nearly 65 years of marriage before she too went Home three years ago. I will never forget how quickly they jumped up to dance when a big band song played at my wedding, even though they were 80 and 81 years old and Grandmother had just had her knees replaced. I'll never forget how hard losing my mom was on him.
I bounced back and forth on whether or not to go to the funeral because it was in North Carolina, tickets were expensive, and I had just gotten back from a youth trip days before. But I am so glad I went. I know that I have an amazing family, but it made my heart swell with love and pride being surrounded by them. There is a legacy of love for the Lord, love for family, and love for others that is painted so beautifully in the lives of my grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, etc.
Grandfather, I'm so thankful for what you have meant in my life and I look forward to spending eternity with you in a place where we will expereince no more tears, sorrow, death, or mourning. Please plant some azaleas around my mansion and set aside some time to teach Jason and I to dance as well as you and Grandmother did. And give my Mom a kiss for me. What it must be like to be in the presence of the King! I'm glad you are truly Home.
"Know therefore that the Lord your God is God; he is the faithful God, keeping his covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commands." Deut. 7:9
(Forgot my suitcase with my camera in it up in NC so once I get that back...thank you Bruce and Lauren...I'll post some pics from the trip.)

Monday, March 9, 2009

Reese Ellery

Okay, so I am posting a million pictures of Reese, but she is just so cute that I can't help myself! Oh, she is just the sweetest, silliest little thing and you could spend all day long kissing those precious cheeks. Yesterday, when Jase picked her up from the nursery at church he asked them if she had been walking for them. The lady sweetly replied no because they rarely put her down. Everyone just likes to hold her and play with her.

Speaking of walking, the girl is taking to it more than crawling now. Although, if it is a longer distance or she wants to go fast, she
definitely goes for crawling.

She is 16 months old now and a hoot. She absolutely loves to make people laugh, especially her sisters. She has found quite a few tricks that make them laugh and continually pulls them out...squeeling in delight quite loudly in the car, putting spoons in her mouth and moving it up and down, blowing kisses on bellies, etc. Really, she absolutely enjoys every minute of making you smile. Last month at her 15 mos. check-up she weighed in at 17 1/2 lbs. which is still -3% in weight and was in the 5% as far as heighth. The doctor says she looks great though. Poor thing
will be at least a year and a half old before
her car seat can be turned around but since her sisters sit in the row behind her I don't think that bothers her too much. She might be itty- bitty but she is full of love, joy and laughs.

The girl is quite prolific in her speech too. Not surprising if she wants to get a word in edge-wise with her sisters. I think she actually talks more than they did at her age. I'm guessing she knows and uses close to 50 words. And she understands practically everything you say. She is good at minding if you tell her 'no' which is nice. As you can tell, she is all smiles. Although, I must warn you, don't try to snatch her away if Mommy is
anywhere in sight. That makes the smile
disappear quickly. Before she was born I teased Jason that I was going to have the doctor immediately put her on his chest since all the girls have been Mommy's girls at first. She is the biggest Mommy's girl by far!
Reesie loooves to be outside and often points to the backdoor and says "weee." That means she wants to swing. Ashlyn almost always steps up to take her out and push her in the swing. She loves to dance and will normally start if you tell her to "shake it!" She also likes to read books throw you a ball.

The girl is more partial to men than to women. And, following in her sisters footsteps, she adores babies! She can tell you were most of her body parts, like belly, eyes, ear, hair, hands, etc are. She blows kisses and you can hear her hum herself to sleep when she is real tired. She also says "amen" at just the right time when prayers are over.
We don't have to go back to the cardiologist until May and we are thankful God allowed her surgery to go so well. It's a big scar but is already extremely faint. You have to know to look for it.


I never cease to be amazed at how much my heart could love not just 1, or 2, but 3 precious girls. I love them more than life itself. And I think because for quite a few months I was scared that her heart condition might cause us to loose Reese, we have something special in our bond. Reesie-boo, I love you more than words can say, precious girl!